7 thoughts on “The Harmlessness of False Accusations

  1. hi there it’s me Rhonda I started viewing your blog about 2 1/2 years ago
    Tomarrow will be 3 yearsy husband has held his RO on me through this divorce.
    Finally sold my house but was homeless for 6 months. He finally released
    Money form sale of home so I rent a home for a year. Greatful my adult children
    Are living with me now. It’s been a nightmare. The only thing saving me is
    I have assects. My lawyer bill up to 85,000 and CPA at 25,000. This RO my husband
    Fraudulently put on me has mentally drain me.my attorney is
    Looking to have it dismissed because of the 3yr and no violation
    Only part. If I don’t get it drop before divorce is final it does affect my
    Alimony. But we did find my husband on contempt of hiding
    Bank accounts and assect. It been a long journey and it not over yet. Getting ready for year four
    Exhausted but moving forward. It’s a shame are legal system isn’t more
    Careful about passing out ROs. So sorry for people that don’t have the
    Assects to pay a attorney. Who knows by the end of my divorce the attorney
    Might get it all. I’m trying not to let that happen. All this and all I worked
    For in 24 yrs because my husband said he was in fear of his life. 3 pieces of
    Paper stamped by a judge that has never given me my day in court to speak
    Against my narcissistic huband who tried to walk away with it all.
    Shame on the judge.

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    1. Hi Rhonda. My meshuggah former boyfriend filed an RO on me and the judge granted it to him ex parte. I filed an appeal because I was denied my right to due process. Have u or your attorney tried that? My goal was actually to have him evaluated as being dangerous but if your rights were ere violated u might be able to get it dismissed. M actually tried to talk to me in court Michaels hen I filed an OFP on him because he hears voices telling him to kill people. I am sorry for all of your troubles. I dont have a car and was supposed to move to Israel but missed my flight due to heart failure and yes, this stress can kill. I am glad ur children are living with u. That says something right there.

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  2. Yes stress affects the body. I had a heart attack and missed my flight to Israel. I tried to commit duicide for the fourth time in two years and missed my flight to Israel. Am back in the hospital abd homeless. I loved the man who filed the injunction but its been two years since I talked to him. He seemed to want to talk to me when I filed a reastraing order on me but in the courtroom tried to talk to me. Since I filed my appeal he hired a lawyer. The judge put me through the wringet and did t want to read my amended appeal. I did have an oral argument ovef a month ago but no word yet. He might drop the injunction but not sure he will have Michael evaluated. Nothing to do and nowhere to go after I leave the hospital
    I am dying of a broken heart. The stress was too much for my son so he went to live with his Dadm.Having said all that I hope u are doing better Todd. I was in the hospital from the 25th of August till the 3rd of September. Then didnt have access to the internet. I hope u r feeling better. O am so sorry about your puppy. I know she was holding u up. I have missed u

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    1. My dog was my heart and my last link to a time when I briefly felt hope and promise (before the harpies descended).

      Thank you for your sympathies, and please endeavor to recover your strength.

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      1. Thanks Todd. I was happy to see you responded. I am not out of the hospital woofs either. Sam said Michael has blocked everyone. I am still suicidal over all of this too. There is nothing left of my life. My son id no longer living with me and I still could be on thr street in a day or so. I cannot afford the motel more than maybe one more day. No car either. I hope u stay in touch. I am concerned about you. My friend is 87 but is doing what she can to help me. I hope u have friends like Pat too. I know u cant replace ur dog but if u could see ur way to find another puppy u might heal in time.Stay in touch..Blessings..

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        1. Thanks, M. I’ve been without purpose for a long time, so it’s hypocritical of me to encourage others to conjure one, but I know it’s essential. You’ve weathered a terrible strain. Try to persevere. I will, also.

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          1. Thanks. Today was horribly difficult. I left the hospital ama. A friend is going to rent me a room so I wont be homeless. I miss my son terribly. I didnt think things could get worse until I lost them $200 worth of clothing and my trip to Israel as well as M. My psychiatrist friend said that he doesn’t think he would file another injunction but unless he gets help I don’t want to risk it its been 6 weeks since the hearing and my PTSD was in full force at 66 I never thought I would be alone without my son and my house in the man I really loved but it happened I hope you’re doing better you become a friend just like my Indian psychiatrist friend take care

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