Turning the Tables: Avoiding Service of a Restraining Order and Applying for One Yourself

I’ve been asked a few times whether avoiding service of a restraining order was advisable, and I’ve recommended that defendants appeal rather than go off the grid. I’m not an attorney, and I don’t strictly know what consequences might befall a defendant who ducked the law and then got caught. To the best of my limited knowledge, s/he’d be subject to arrest. The story that follows, therefore, is posted strictly FYI, and is not intended nor should be construed as advice, legal or otherwise. Its facts, furthermore, may not apply universally, as laws that govern the administration of restraining orders differ from state to state.

I was contacted by a woman a few months ago who was issued a false restraining order sought by a vindictive and parasitic man who meant to use the system to hurt her. She happened to be out of town and timed her return to coincide with the order’s expiration for non-service. (Restraining orders must be served within a specified period, for example, 45 days. If this term elapses, the restraining order is voided, and its applicant must return to the courthouse and start the process over.) This cagey woman actually called the police, explained the situation, and inquired how long they had to serve her. She didn’t hide from them; she simply remained unavailable for that period. Upon her return, she applied for a restraining order against her false accuser…and got it.

While it’s the official position of this ever probative writer that she should be ashamed of herself, some reprobate scofflaws might chalk one up for poetic justice.

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Move It or Lose It: Motions to the Court That Restraining Order Defendants Should Consider

A recent respondent to this blog proposed that I look into motions to the court that restraining order defendants (or past defendants) might wish to make. He indicated that he managed to have an injunction that was filed against him vacated by presenting himself as more credible than the plaintiff in the case and that various motions he filed were instrumental to his success.

Motions endeavor to move the court to take a requested action (for example, to grant you more time to respond to or to vacate the case against you). A motion may be made orally (during a hearing, for example): “If it please the court, the defendant moves that the plaintiff’s restraining order be vacated on the basis that….” Or it may be made in a written brief submitted to a clerk to relay to the judge. Examples of various kinds of motions can be found on the Internet if you search diligently enough, and their language can be used as models for motions you may wish to file. The caption (heading) on your written brief(s) might look something like this:

Or it might be formatted very differently. Find an example of a brief submitted to your local court to use as a template.

In a motion you filed to respond to or oppose a restraining order, you would identify yourself as the defendant. The plaintiff would be the person who applied for the restraining order against you. Correctly identify the kind of motion you’re filing, the venue you’re filing it in (that is, which court), and the cause number (and judge, if applicable).

Clerks can’t provide you with legal advice, but they can answer general questions you have about document preparation.

You can easily work up a facsimile of an example caption you find in any decent word processor. Just peck around until you get the effect you want. Make sure everything is double-spaced and that the margins are wide enough for easy reading. Judges aren’t the sticklers for precise measurements that English teachers are. You’re trying to get points across not be given a gold star. Concern yourself more with persuasively conveying your points than with trying to sound like an attorney. Everyday language is fine.

The other thing to remember when filing motions (or any briefs to the court) is to make extra copies for yourself. Have a couple extra copies when you file, in fact, and see that all of the copies are time-stamped or that you get a receipt to confirm that you filed and when you filed.

An alternative to drafting motions from scratch is finding templates of legal forms for your state on the Internet that can be filled in online and printed out. Use these search engine terms and see what they return: your state + legal forms. A site sponsored by your local court system will likely pop up. If there’s a search bar on it, type in motion (or a specific kind of motion). You can also get blank motion forms from the courthouse.

Bear in mind that the worst that can happen if you file a motion is that it’s denied. Filing one in no way disadvantages you or put you in peril of some sinister counteraction. In other words, you have nothing to lose by acting. Here are some motions you may wish to consider:

  • MOTION FOR CONTINUANCE or MOTION TO CONTINUE
  • MOTION TO DISMISS
  • MOTION TO VACATE
  • MOTION TO EXPUNGE

Motions to the court for more time mean the same thing everywhere. What motions to dismiss, vacate, or expunge a restraining order may mean, how they’re qualified, when they can be filed, and whether they apply is going to vary from state to state.

At the very least filing a motion (or motions) will impress upon the judge and put the plaintiff on notice that you’re taking your defense seriously. And in all things brought before the court, impressions are paramount. (It’s on the force of impressions, in fact, that many restraining orders are obtained in the first place.)

Admittedly, this post’s title probably overstates the necessity of your filing a motion or motions. It’s just that I can’t resist a pun.

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*Self-represented defendants might also consider familiarizing themselves with various objections that can be raised during trial.